What You Must Know When Seeking Help For Domestic Abuse

By Dr. Jeanne King

The Battered Womens Movement and Clinical Psychology are as far apart as the North and South Pole. Yet, many people outside of these circles/disciplines believe domestic abuse treatmentand advocacyare sub-specialties of the practice of psychology. Not at all so!

After I fled from the danger I lived in Chicago, I retreated into a life of solace and wrote

All But My Soul: Abuse Beyond Control

. Creating that publication was the most amazing experience of my liferight up there with the birth of a child. It was my fourth child.

With the enthusiasm of a child, I approached individuals in the domestic violence arena, eager to share what I had learned and produced in the manuscript. Initially, I was not received well and couldnt understand why, until an individual from the inner circle of the Battered Womens Movement shared the inside politics with me.

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You will have a hard time breaking into this line of work,” she said, “because you are a psychologist. Funny thing is I thought this was my asset, until she helped me realized it was my liability among battered women.

She explained that historically the psychologists were used in re-victimizing survivors of domestic abuse at the bequest of their perpetrators. And over the years, actually decades, they became the enemies of battered women.

I have since learned that this is understandably so, especially for women residing in domestic violence shelters. It is estimated that roughly 95% of women going through the abuse shelter system will be certified (i.e. blessed with a psychiatric diagnosis) by virtue of their navigating the mental health care systemwhile in route to safetyas a survivor of domestic violence.

This truly disturbed me, as a practicing psychologist and domestic abuse survivor. Even more disturbing was the fact that I could find little to no domestic violence curricula offered in psychological training.

In no way am I suggesting that one not seek the services of domestic abuse advocacy; to the contrary. I strongly believe in the work of domestic abuse advocates. However, I recognize that when utilizing domestic abuse advocacy, one must be mindful of the importance of also securing the expertise of a mental health professional, authentically knowledgeable in domestic violence.

The front line treatment for domestic violence and the actual practice of professional psychology are truly as far apart as the automotive industry and the practice of dentistry. I vowed to commit myself to helping bridge this huge knowledge and service gap.

The

Intimate Partner Abuse Screen

stems from this commitment. It identifies the psychosocial, behavioral construct “intimate partner violence” in a way that is accurate to domestic abuse advocacy, while being psychologically and personally insightful to the user. This interactive online e-test sheds light on what domestic abuse is and what it is not; what maintains it and what interrupts the cycle of abuse at home and in the battles beyond.

About the Author: Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. is a psychologist, author, speaker and consulting expert., Dr. King developed the Intimate Partner Abuse Screen to help people properly identify and stop domestic abuse at home and beyond.

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